Thursday, March 26, 2009

Xibei Youmian Cun







My friend Christy was here for a visit from the US this past week. She used to teach here at our preschool in China and wanted to come back for a vacation. She was able to volunteer at the orphanage for a few days and share some of her special education expertise with the staff. Her visit provided an excuse to go to my favorite restaurant. Our staff had our Spring Festival celebration here and I fell in love with the food and the atmosphere.
Xibei is a small chain in Beijing and Shenzhen. It is full of rural ethnic flourish. I love the rustic concrete floors and interior designed to mimic the cave homes of the northern Hebei cuisine it features. Walls are lined with braids of red peppers and corn. Trees overhang wells, and pumpkins and other produce are scattered throughout. Patrons gather casually outside and in with baskets of roasted sunflower seeds to munch on as they make their food selections from a huge book of colorful photos. You can view these on their website. The staff is dressed in in cheerful clothing typical of the region and upon request will perform with dances and songs. Huge windows allow you to view the food prep and the kichen. Everything is spotless (including the squatty potties). The food is very earthy, fresh and natural. We had the fabulous house salad with vinigrette and roasted peanuts, dumplings, tomato and lamb boiling soup, some kind of wonderful roasted flatbread with herbs, and lots of veggies. It was scrumptious! Here's a review...

Frommer's Review

This place is worth the trip out to Yayun Cun in itself. Friendly staff and bright, faux-rural decor make this the best "family restaurant" in Beijing, and the cuisine (a hybrid of Mongolian and Shanxi fare) will have you looking through the picture menu to plan your next visit. The signature dish is youmian wowo (steamed oatmeal noodles) served with mushroom (sushijun retang) or lamb (yangrou retang) broth, with coriander and chile on the side. Familiar yangrou chuan'r (mutton skewers with cumin) and yogurt (suannai) with honey make excellent side dishes, while the house salad (Xibei da bancai) is a meal in itself, crammed with unusual ingredients such as wild greens, radish, and purple cabbage, and topped with a delicious sesame dressing. The one dish you must try is zhijicao kao niupai (lotus leaf-wrapped roast beef with mountain herbs). Roast beef will never be the same.

And another great review can be found here.


Here are little animals made out of dough. An older lady sits at a table and makes these using a pair of scissors and seeds for eyes. The children can gather around and sit on little tree stumps to watch as she expertly crafts them. Each child is allowed to choose one as they leave, Abbey has picked a bunny each time.

Gan bei!

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Raindrops, Sesame Rolls, and Freezing Again

My sunshine on a cloudy day, thrilled for a chance to break out her princess umbrella.

Life is finally returning to our "China normal" around here.
When we came back from the States it was very warm...i.e. air conditioning and shorts. We sent home all our winter clothes, including my only jacket, with my mom. Socks, sweaters, robes, long pants, everything. Guess what? The rains came and now it's freezing again...i.e. heaters and layers. We keep hearing it won't last long though, so we are trying to refrain from buying again and just get through it somehow.
There is a saying among foreigners here, "Do not ask why." It is so true, you just never know what will happen on any day or at any moment. Best not to question it, just go with the flow. I never know what repairman will show up next in my apartment or when there will be hot water, or not. So normal is to expect the unexpected. My new theme is that nothing else matters, Abbey and I are together, and we are having fun, all else is not important.
Abbey concocted this interesting outfit for one of her song and dance shows shows.
On the ferry to Hong Kong with Lao Lao. We had so much fun shopping together. Abbey picked out a pink silk purse with sequin dragonflies and a pink silk parasol with flowers painted on it. She also got a silk fan and has been performing some wonderful fan dances with it.
We took a tram up to Victoria Peak and got to enjoy the dazzling view of Hong Kong.
We won a prize for our fundraising efforts for the orphanage, dinner at the Sheraton buffet. The meal was incredible and Abbey loved dipping the colored marshmallows into the chocolate fountain and then adding her own colored sprinkles. She also really enjoyed visiting the cheese bar. Mom and I loved the coffee, bread, and really everything. Thank you B & E!
Of course Abbey had to wear the Snow White dress and bring the new parasol. Yes, she's wearing the plastic high heels too, as usual.
Brad and Emily welcomed my mom with a special meal on their new roof top garden. The view of Shenzhen is awesome from here. Surrounded by water and overlooking the Eiffel Tower. Yes, we have an Eiffel Tower here, don't ask why.
When my mom left to fly back to the states my friend Lisa sent me a text that she had made my mom some dim sun to take on the plane. When I had flown home weeks before she sent Abbey and I with a stack of yummy hot chinese pancakes. This time she had incredible sesame rolls for my mom and I. It was so sweet. I told her I would love to learn how to make them so a few days later she had me over to do just that.
Lisa is a pastry chef that attended culinary school in Beijing. She is an incredible cook and everything she makes is wholesome, tastes wonderful, and looks beautiful.We are spreading a sesame paste made of fried sesame seeds and sesame oil over whole wheat dough. We then rolled it up and sliced it cinamon roll style. Oh and yes, these have a little cinamon and brown sugar too.
Instead of egg yolk we heated special organic honey Lisa brought down from Northern China. We diluted it with hot water to brush on the top of the rolls before dipping them in the seeds and baking them. She has a toaster oven just like me, a rarity in China!

Abbey and Richard, playing while we cook. They had so much fun! Richard is in my kindergarten class at school.
Made from purple sweet potatoes and black sesame seeds, formed into dough rings and fried.
Everything is cooked in a wok, you need no other pan here except a soup pot. These are our delicious scrambled eggs and yellow leeks, grown away from sunlight.
Lisa's beautiful wooden birdcage that I love. She collects rare wood and jade.
A feast!

Friday, February 20, 2009

Two Homes, Two Lives, Two Worlds

The week before we went to the US we had the treat of seeing our friends Mark and Lynn as they came to adopt their precious daughter Paige.
Leaving Hong Kong airport at Spring Festival.
Abbey wore her tutu throughout the trip home.
Enjoying the beautiful California weather. Goodbye long underwear and heaters!
Big smile because Auntie Cynthia is passing out cupcakes as usual.

Both Abbey and I are assimilating our new reality. Somehow going to the US for Spring Festival and coming back to China made us rethink the words like home, school, church, family, friends. We have to clarify all the time which side of the world we are talking about. Our lives will never be the same. It's so funny to hear Abbey talking all the time about Hong Kong, Shekou, and Shenzhen...trying to blend all that with our life in the US. She definitely has a global perspective.
We had a bit of a bumpy re-entry into China as Abbey got sick the day before we left the US and eventually ended up with acute bronchitis. I've also had conjunctivitis and just today a massive migraine. We've been readjusting to how hard simple things can be like getting groceries, communicating with people over repairs or problems, and battling mosquitoes at night. We've also been appreciating again how simple our life and routine is here and how very thankful we are for having this year together.
We had a fantastic time in the US, meeting with those we love from morning 'till night, eating lots of yummy familiar food, and shopping at Target. Being at church was so incredibly refreshing. We also took care of all kinds of business getting our teeth cleaned, taxes done, immunizations, restocking medicines, registering for preschool, visa paperwork, and so much more. Our trip back to China was made so much easier because my mom came back with us. It would have been so hard to say goodbye and instead Abbey is thrilled to have her Laolie here.
Last night we were able to have Donna and her girls stay with us as they head back to work at their foster home in Henan. It was really great to be able to share our experiences and learn from each other. Abbey was thrilled to have three more girls in the house. Donna helped me to understand how cushy I have it here in our lovely apartment with access to more western goods. She is doing an amazing job overseeing a houseful of little ones with special needs, being a single parent, and adjusting to the challenges of living in China.
Abbey's day care had a special get together luncheon our first day back so that Abbey could see all her friends. It was so wonderful! Thank you Tina and Dan.
As if having a party for us was not enough, they also let us stay in their home for a week sleeping in the comfiest bed on earth and eating all their Trader Joe's groceries.Uncle Bob and Ashton make awesome forts. It's especially fun with a flashlight.Fun with Michalea, Luke, and Carolyn.
More fun with Laura, Penelope, and Phoebe - they rock! We loved every moment.
When you are very tired from partying with your friends find the nearest closet and go to sleep.
Feeding Derica's new pony. Abbey had her first donut at this play date - chocolate with sprinkles.
Our dear friends the Bland's had a mouth-watering Mexican feast for us with a houseful of our Shepherd's House friends. It felt so good to be with those who have been with me since I first stepped foot onto the yellow brick road. Abbey was so happy to be with Madison again.Pizza with teacher Mary and teacher Christine. Did I say we love our church?
Slumber party with Aisi and Breeana! Thank you to our Jonathan and Michelle for all your love and friendship.

Lindi and Amir treated us to our favorite Sharkey's Mexican food and Billie took us for a long awaited In and Out Burger. Joanie made us lovely quesdilla's and tortillia soup. Sorry to talk about food so much but it was such a fun break from rice, rice, and more rice. We love spending time with all our dear friends!




Oh, and our friend Kelly asked what was important to bring back to China with us. Tons of otc medicines and vitamins, birthday party supplies, a huge box of Goldfish crackers (you can get them in China but it costs a fortune), lots of clothes for Abbey from Target. Oh, and smoke detectors and makeup. Many of the comfort items we would love to have there we realized we can really live without for another six months and it will just be a huge treat to indulge when we have them again - like magazines and books in English, craft supplies, and good quality toys. Oh and also for Kelly, you will be happy to know that we got Abbey her very own real Disney princess camera and she is loving taking pictures!

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Living Between Two Worlds

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I have had many moments since we arrived in the US of feeling we are in a dream and will be waking up any moment in China. It's been such a wonderful time but somewhat surreal. In two days we head back to our other life, and I miss that life as we miss this one when we are there. Some of the things that shocked me upon arrival in China have now been shocking in the reverse here. It's all the little things...
  • There is a lot of cotton on the q-tips here that I once thought we needed and now realize you actually don't, it's a luxury
  • There is toilet paper in every bathroom here and I don't have to check my purse all the time to make sure we have some. I see that as a true need, but no one in our other world does
  • My sister told me to use a paper towel last night for Abbey's napkin and it seemed so wasteful to use that huge piece of paper when we are used to having a very small, thin tissue
  • The refrigerators here were my first shock here and I continue to remain in awe of the size of them and the incredible amount of food in every home. It's awesome to see so many things we know and like...how do we pick, where do we start?
  • We've been sleeping on an incredibly soft bed and just giggling each time we crawl into it, we will be back to our 3/4" mattress soon. Hard as a rock.
  • The trash cans here are gigantic. At work and at home in China they are all smaller than a little bucket, I fill mine up at work about every 20 minutes. how is it that as an American I create so much waste? especially paper.
  • Media assaults and insults here. I was sitting behind a van last night at a traffic light (strange to be driving after 6 months) and this guy had mounted a flat screen to the back window with a slideshow of girls in bikinis with motorcycles. One thing I love about China is seeing nothing like that! Nothing like that on tv, NO magazine covers at check out stands, I mean none...they aren't even sold in grocery stores, convenience or discount stores.
  • I tried to go see a movie here, big mistake. My last movie was Cheaper by the Dozen on Christmas day several years ago. I attempted to go to Slumdog Millionare. Closed my eyes through the trailers and walked out doubled over and bawling 15 minutes into the movie. I can't take it...way to close to our home and heart in China. The begging and poverty is too real to me now.
And the big things...
  • Struggling with survivors guilt that I am free and that as a single mom school teacher here, I am actually one of the richest people on the face of the planet. What I am I doing with all that I have? I am astounded at the result of one US dollar in China. So little can go such a long, long way . I keep thinking of Schindler's list and how he grieved at the end that he had not done more, thinking with a few thousand dollars the lives he could have saved. Every dollar that is spent I am seeing children's faces, who in the world is thinking of and caring for them as a parent would? He is. More than ever I am convinced that He is a Father to the fatherless. When we allow Him to work in us for adoption or orphan care we get the honor of feeling His heart pulse through us. It is so near and dear.
I want to share a link with you to Emily Chapman's blog to see Maria's Big House of Hope. I am so thrilled to see them yarping as they assemble the cribs. And to think that there is now a hospice filled with love to usher children as they head into eternity.

While I'm at it I might as well link to Chinese Starfish too. She is opening up another foster home with nine new cleft babies, how wonderful!

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