Abbey woke up very sick during the wee morning hours of her birthday. Thankfully we had her party two days before, because from that point on it seems like we fell off the planet for a few weeks. She started with the flu - fever, congestion and coughing, for a week. The next week she developed an ear infection and we braved the Chinese children's hospital by ourselves, it was quite an experience. We survived it and got ear drops and antibiotics and as she neared the end of those she had improved a lot so we took off for a Safari park in Guangzhou over the May 1st holiday weekend. While at the park Abbey got very sick again and by the time we got home I was very concerned. Fevers again, congestion in her ears, nose, and eyes. Very lethargic. This time I went to the $expat clinic where I can communicate somewhat clearly with a Chinese doctor who speaks a good deal of English. We changed antibiotics and started nose drops. We both felt she needed lots of rest to recover so I took this week off work and quarantined ourselves. Lots of Candy Land, Hello Kitty painting and Coloring, The Ladybug Game, many tea parties, and a complete saturation level with Charlie and Lola. We didn't leave the house for days. She developed intestinal problems from the antibiotics so we went back to the doctor for good bacteria supplements and began electrolytes too. She is still not well, but so much better than she was. We've been slowly coming out of seclusion - venturing out Thursday evening for a special meeting, and then on Friday for a friends birthday dinner, and then last night for special dinner for the orphanage volunteers. Abbey was so excited to get out and see friends, she almost went a little crazy with joy. We discovered a little orange bus that evidently comes to our back gate every 15 minutes. Wish we had known about it from the beginning. It's just one kuai and goes to Holiday Plaza, which is a very nice shopping center. We took a brief run there to H & M and I got two t-shirts and a pair of earrings. I am ready to burn the clothes that we brought in our suitcases, I am so sick of them. About the 4th day into our sequestering Abbey began issuing commands to me, such as, "Get my milk," or, "I don't want
this one, I said
that one!" Is this a normal part of the healing process? I decided she was feeling good enough to start tapering off on some of the TLC and bringing a little reality check back into the picture. So even though she's still not well I've reintroduced some of our normal discipline and began easing off on some of the special treats, like doling out Easter candy (what little I have not yet eaten) every time she has to take medicine. I was almost in tears yesterday just from being worn down from the situation but then had the perfect break in the evening with our orphange team's Turkish Barbeque. I put on my new top and huge purple shell earrings, took Abbey over to our preschool to play with her friends, and headed over to chat with all our wonderful volunteers and teachers. I must say I feel so much better and I
can't wait to go back to work tomorrow!Our
Sunshine Foundation website is now up and running. Be sure to watch the little movie. With the donations of friends we saw over our CNY trip home we have been able to get the children a playhouse, set of preschool blocks, books, and center time toys. They also got a children's pool filled with rice for fun sensory play with funnels, measuring cups, etc. THANK YOU!!

This has nothing to do with anything but I want to add a picture, so here's a random one. Abbey, our dear Chana, and our wonderful new friend Michelle grabbing a bite at Luo Hu Commercial City in the midst of a wild, unplanned for, shopping episode. We love
Luo Hu!